How to Pick Up Girls with Boyfriends

“How do you pick up a girl who has a boyfriend?”

So…

How *do* I pick up women with boyfriends on a regular basis while most guys see it as an impossible feat?

Tough question right?

Ehh. Not really.

It’s actually not that complicated at all. And I’m going to explain it to you.

First, answer a question for me.

How many pairs of shoes do you have?

I’m going to guess the number is greater than one. Now if I asked you how many cell phones services you have, you are very likely to answer “just 1″

Why is this relevant?

Well, if someone was trying to get you to switch cell phone carriers, they would have to convince you why they’re less expensive, provide better service, and have cooler phones.

And if you’re already happy with your carrier, it can be a difficult challenge.

But, if someone wanted to sell you a pair of shoes, they wouldn’t have to compare them to your old pair at all. All they would have to do was convince you that you *also* look great in the new pair.

See where I’m going with this?

You see, the reason why I can bang some guy’s girlfriend on a thursday night and have her go back happy and lying through her teeth to her boyfriend on a friday is because I don’t try to compete with him.

I don’t make it an “either-or” decision.

‘Cause any time you try to compete head on with some boyfriend who she’s been seeing for months or years you’ll lose 99% of the time.

Sadly enough, most men make the mistake of trying to prove that they would make a “better boyfriend” in this situation. It simply doesn’t work.

You gotta market yourself as the “non-exclusive alternative”.

You must become a guy who she can *also* enjoy.

See, the second you try to replace her boyfriend by giving her rides, buying her gifts or qualifying what a nice stable guy you are, she’s going to start calculating how much of a pain in the ass it is to break up with her current boyfriend.

And that’s a lot of work.

So in all cases, due to the intrinsic “lazyness” of the female brain, you’re going to lose.

That’s why I say — don’t even compete.

You might be wondering “Vin - how do I market myself as the non-exclusive alternative?”

1. You must be completely non-jealous and possesive.

Any degree of jealousy or posessiveness will immediately slate you into the “competing with boyfriend” category. No good. You want to be the guy that represents freedom, good feelings, excitement. An enticing alternative to monogamy.

2. You must have an exciting social life that she is not a part of.

In fact the best mental stance for you to take is “I’m glad you have a boyfriend. That means you won’t be hounding me when I’m busy with my life.” If you can do that, you’re SET. Demonstrate this by being very independent and showing your excitement for whatever it is your life consists of. Also be sure to show her that you have many female friends and other possible lovers.

3. You must be supportive of her current relationship and encourage her happiness.

This is key, and you almost want to be more excited about her relationship than she is. Have you ever had a friend who was “over-excited” about your girlfriend… And you were thinking “Yeah. I guess she’s alright…” Your friend caused you to have standards your girlfriend couldn’t live up to realistically. Doing this to the girl you are gaming will make her feel that her boyfriend may be a bit… well… inadequate.

4. You need enough game to close the deal.

And that’s where Dating Diablo comes in. You’ll have plenty of tactics and techniques all within an organized framework that nearly guarantees success.

What are the three different situations where a woman can use a boyfriend objection? And what each of those three situations mean? (Hint: Two of these situations are a green light, while one is a definite red light.)

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Vin DiCarlo is one of the pioneering geniuses behind Natural Game. Be sure to check out his blog, list of products and personal training program.

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