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Looks don’t matter, but, your “look” does. Looks are what our genetics have given us, which we have very little control over. Guys who are blessed with good looks are said to be “genetically attractive”. The fact is though, there are many good-looking guys who struggle with women. I have also met others not so genetically fortunate who have massive success because they understand what looks good on them, and how to present themselves in an attractive way. These guys are said to be “physically attractive”.
If you had to choose one over the other, it is FAR better to be physically attractive. AND it is well within the realm of your control. Just follow some very easy tips here and you will be on your way.
The physically attractive men are the ones who understand that they have power over their image and look, and choose to exercise that on a daily basis. By taking care of their look, they communicate class and self-esteem to those they come in contact with. Also, there are plenty of guys out there blessed genetically who go unnoticed because they are totally clueless when it comes to looking cool.
Time and time again, I meet guys who have great personalities, and have a lot to offer women, but they simply have no idea how to present themselves in a powerful, attractive way. Owning this skill would automatically help them feel better about themselves, filling them with confidence and dramatically increasing their likelihood of success instantly!
I once was out shopping with a client, and asked him to take a trip around the store and pick out some items that he thought were cool. He returned with some pretty telling items - some boring jeans, some shirts which did not work for his body type and skin, and a hideous jacket that might look good on someone 15 years his junior (is this you??). So, I told him to put the items he selected away, and I went around with him, and started asking questions. His answers led me to believe that he saw himself as “just an average guy”. I have heard this all too often when working with men needing help with their image. They have lost a sense of uniqueness and purpose causing them to accept fitting-in as a way of life. Part of what I love to do with guys is to help them live beyond the small box they have created entitled “my world”.
If you want great relationships with quality women you must get your life in order. One of the critical things to do is to think outside of this “box” and build a look that works for you. Leave behind the “average guy” image which only helps you fade into the background. By the time the afternoon was over, this guy was shocked, surprised and thrilled. He instantly felt more confident in knowing he looked good, and felt good. His look was coming together!
There are three principles to guide your choices when building your look and enhancing your image:
1) Does it help me feel more powerful and confident?
2) Will it help me achieve the aims I strive for in life?
3) Does it work for my body-type and personality?
In my ebook, “How To Get A Girlfriend“, I go into great detail on how to answer these questions as well as seven guiding principles for getting your look together. We also give you a series of exercises which help you to implement a quick and simple plan of ACTION for how to shop for yourself, what to buy and WHERE without spending tons of money.
Interested in saving dough, while looking like a million buck$?
Of course, having a cool look is just one of the 7 main skills I outline for getting a girlfriend - and not just ANY girl - but one that is right for you…
My philosophy? Stop ’sarging’ and start living a real life, then watch real women materialize who are ready for YOU…
If this rings a bell, then you gotta check out my ebook “How To Get A Girlfriend“.
I wish you guys an awesome weekend…I am off to ride some serious roller coasters…will post more next week.
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Stephen Nash is the co-founder of Cutting Edge Image Consulting. Their products include: “Natural Attraction: A Real World Guide to Image Enhancement and Dating For Men”, a 7-Day audio program, complete with workbook and exercises and the complimentary classic e-book, “How To Get A Girlfriend”. CEIC also offers seminars in New York City, and continually sees clients on a one-on-one basis.
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