Fundamentals

Lets talk a little bit about body language and how it relates to your attitude and confidence. We all know that people communicate with each other on multiple levels. But did you know that spoken words is just 7% of what we communicate? The majority of communication is done with vocal tones, vocal pitch, movement, body language and gestures. All of these things and more make up our composite body language expressions, such as: Facial ...

“It’s not what you say, it’s HOW you say it”  Two people can say the same exact words and get totally opposite reactions. Why? What makes others embrace or reject your words? Well there are several elements of successful delivery and they are very subtle! One of them is how you speak with your body, but we will get into that in a bit. On the vocal tip, there are a number of ways that ...

Looks don’t matter, but, your “look” does. Looks are what our genetics have given us, which we have very little control over. Guys who are blessed with good looks are said to be “genetically attractive”. The fact is though, there are many good-looking guys who struggle with women. I have also met others not so genetically fortunate who have massive success because they understand what looks good on them, and how to present themselves in ...

Mike, who used to be with CEIC, drew these up a few years ago when we were testing the first draft of “Natural Attraction”. When we ran these by our focus group, they were blown away. In fact, this was one of the top 10 aspects from the program! I consistently get notes about reprinting these, so here you go…pay attention to these, and you will increase your success with women GUARANTEED. ******************************** 25 Points ...

“You never get a second chance at a first impression?” How many times have you heard that expression? This is true whether you like it or not. From the moment a person first meets you, they form strong assumptions based solely on the way you look and present yourself. I realize that this negates all of those wonderful things you have going for you on the inside. But the reality is, my friend, a person ...

Watch Brad Pitt, George Clooney, or any other man with high status and you’ll notice that they simply move differently than the rest of us. They have an aura about them that they are hot stuff, and because of that, women swoon over them.You too can develop that aura, in order to increase your attractiveness to women and your dating success.Have you ever noticed the way your body looks when you’ve felt like crap? You ...

Unfortunately, what you do with your hands can be one of the quickest non-verbal ways to destroy the attraction that a woman feels for you, because the wrong hand movements can communicate that you are a low-status, beta male.To make matters worse, your hands can be particularly tough to manage because, let's face it, when you feel nervous, the hardest thing in the world is figuring out what to do with your hands!For success with ...

Next to your internal mindset (which should be relaxed, confident, and sexual), body language is the most important aspect when it comes to dating women.Why? Because an estimated 67% to 93% of human communication (according to university researchers) is non-verbal, and your body language reveals your internal emotional state. Whether someone's parents just died, or whether they just got promoted to CEO... you can tell by observing their ...

As part of my research for a guide to style, I put together a focus group of 6 randomly chosen hot, single women between 21 and 33, to find out what styles in men they considered hot.My goal was to find the things that they all agreed on.The results were surprising, because the issues the women had the strongest opinions about were ones that most guys would never think of.1. YOUR TEETH. Bad teeth are ...