Early Game

Sexual tension is paramount in any good pick-up. It is the energy, or charge of the interaction. Its application is subtle, but powerful. High sexual tension is necessary for speeding up escalation. It is how I can consistently bed women in 2-4 hours, and often in less than half an hour. So what is sexual tension? There are many different conceptualizations of sexual tension floating around in the seduction community. Some examples of these are ...

As you sit with her the vibe gets intimate. You get closer. It is loud so you may be whispering in her ear. The moment comes. You feel it. The window opens. You step through and lead her to nirvanna with you, the master of cool. How do you do it? By letting her know you find her attractive. By going direct. A ...

In the process of seduction, a lot of people view the first kiss as the first major “transition point”, moving the interaction from casual hangout and flirtation to slightly-more-serious “I like you” territory. Because the first kiss seems like such an important transition point, it’s one of the most-often fouled-up parts of the seduction process. I’m here to tell you that A) Kissing a girl is not a big deal, and B) once you ...

The words used for an opener are not as important as the intent, the energy, and the commitment you bring to it. That said, I have one absolute fall-back every time 100% effective opener. This is something that anyone can use, anytime, any skill level, any environment. For instance, if you are any of the following: ...

Okay, like everyone else in the world, I'm a pretty needy guy. I want people to like me, I want girls to be obsessed with me within five minutes of meeting me, I want to be friends with everyone. This is human nature, we are naturally selfish. We are on a neverending adventure to be happy. There's several paths people take to do this. For topic's sake let's split it up into two types: getting ...

So many guys IM me with the question, "How do you keep up conversation?" I get things like, "After the initial topic, it kind of just trails off from there." It's a problem that I tend to have myself from time to time. Here's the best answer.. In order for conversation to flow easily and persist, the thing that must come into play is your interest. That's obvious, but sometimes we lose interest quickly. Remember, ...

You've learned about personal vibe, how to connect with a girl, how to have genuine interest and how to keep a conversation going. You also read about getting sexual, but what about before all that? What about the platonic vibe? To me, the most overlooked aspect of meeting someone new is the platonic level of the interaction. This is the person's first impression of you, it's a very important part of meeting someone. Juggler ...

Walking down the street, you usually feast your eyes on the hot ladies going by and say to yourself, “I'd do her!” Has it ever occurred to you that men are not alone in this? Yes, my friend, women do the same! During your everyday life, whether you're on the subway, walking in the local shopping mall or dancing in your favorite club, girls notice you and measure you in ...

The best transition... is no transition? No transition. No transition. No transition. No transition. No transition. No transition. No transition. No transition. No transition. No transition. No transition. No transition. Go right into something that is very different from the last thing. After the hair thing, ask if they have any pets or ask what fun things they are doing this summer, talk about your trip to ...

Hi, I'm a good vibe. (Part 1) Approach Calibration with Strangers and Friends Or: how to make approaching strangers just as easy as approaching friends. The average person assumes that his approach to a stranger is unwelcome. Therefore, he either approaches apologetically and meekly, or he acts overbearing to plow through his anticipated rebuff. However, it is precisely these uncalibrated behaviors that cause a stranger?s desire to be rid ...